The feeling of Halloween elicits excitement for most kids. It
means showing off new costumes, staying up late and enduring a sugar overdose
at the end of the night!
While having a child with autism spectrum disorders
(ASD) may offer challenges during this time of year, the same feeling of
enthusiasm doesn’t have to be lost.
Neither Autism Speaks, nor Kathryn Smith,
RH, DrPH, of Children’s Hospital Los Angeles want you, or your family to miss
out on the fun. Here are some highlights of Smith’s tips that our patron, Avita
Nova Academy, believe you should be most aware of:
Tip #1 Try the costume on before the big night
The way the costume feels for your child will be of the
utmost importance. If you’re buying this year’s Halloween costume, be aware
that one size does not always fit all; if the costume is too bulky, too tight,
or just all-around too uncomfortable the night has the potential to be ruined,
so make it a high priority to try the costume on at least a week before
Halloween night.
Tip #2 Try on the costume – SEVERAL TIMES
Once you purchase or make the costume, have your child wear
it for short periods of time and try to increase the intervals as time goes on.
The practice of wearing the costume will prepare your child for what they will
experience the day of Halloween, however keep in mind that if your child does
not want to wear the costume, then don’t make them. Smith suggests to instead,
“Talk about the situation…and try to uncover the reason why they don’t like
it.” If you talk it out, then chances are they may get used to the idea of
wearing one.
Tip #3 Talk about (and practice) the upcoming events
Talking about what you have planned for the day will better
prepare your child for what they might experience. Smith suggests it may help
to go even further, “Create a visual story of what Halloween may be like for
your child, with some pictures or drawings.” If you have some friendly
neighbors, try scheduling some time to practice ringing, or knocking on their
doorbell to receive some candy.
Tip #4 Stick to the familiar
Since Halloween is about the bizarre and spooky, it may be
best not to overwhelm your child with too many unfamiliar things. Try taking
your child to a neighborhood party, community event, or school festival where
your child may know many people in attendance. If that’s not an option, then
try sticking close to family or friends for the day’s events.
Tip #5 Try not to go to the outer limits
Your child may be uncomfortable with the prospect of
knocking on new doors and meeting new people, so only do what he, or she can
take. Smith suggests baby steps, “…You can start by going to three houses.
Asses how your child is doing and build up to more houses the following year.”
If this is stretching your child’s limits, try staying home this year and
giving your child the option to pass out candy. It’ll make him or her more
familiar with the idea of Halloween for the following year.
Tip #6 Overall – Don’t overwhelm
The darkness, bright lights and spooky sounds may be enough
to send your child into overload. The goal should always be to make new things
as comfortable as possible for your child. If the stimuli is too much, then try
planning activities that can be done in the day, like drawing on pumpkins,
coloring, or watching spooky cartoons and nix the Halloween trick-or-treating
events.
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